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The Don’t Write an Homophobic LTE or Else Be Subject to the Wrath of Jamie
I have made mention of my opposition of Amendment One previously, and also referenced people in my hometown who were ignorant on the subject. Well it appears we have another winner!
This Letter to the Editor (which can be found here with all comments) popped up this morning. It made me angry. Here is the text:
Homosexuality is a choice and a sin
I want to know why The News Herald supports homosexuality. The April 19 editorial does just that. The author of the editorial did not even have the bravery to sign his or her name. It is signed the “Winston-Salem Journal”.
I am sure the framers of the Constitution did not have homosexuality in mind when they wrote the Constitution. Else, they would have put drunkards, gamblers and thieves in a protected class. The blacks should realize that they do not have a choice in being black and the Constitution does protect them, but the homosexuals have chosen to live that way. They do not have the right to take taxpayer money to support their sin. Heterosexual couples get tax breaks; should homosexual couples get a tax break also?
The people of the twin cities of Sodom and Gomorra were destroyed because of sin and wrong choices. Imagine Minneapolis/St. Paul being destroyed because of sin. People who drink too much, steal and make excuses for it should not expect the same treatment as the average American citizen. I would not let a drunkard drive my car. Is that discrimination? I would not have a homosexual teach children. Is that discrimination?
It is an old trick to use the Constitution to promote bad beliefs. The Constitution protects religion and this is a moral and religious belief that homosexuals are going to hell. This is believed by thousands of Protestants and Catholics. Many other religions disavow homosexuality. They do not refer to “lifestyles” and “domestic partnerships” but rather to sin and punishment for it and salvation through repentance.
We should pray for them. In schools the children should be taught to pray for them instead of making fun of them. Making fun is a type of bullying. I respect all homosexuals and pray for them, but I draw the line when voting for them or having them teach the youth of America in our public school. Promoting laws that support homosexuality is attacking the protection of religion guarantee in the First Amendment to the Constitution. We need the Marriage Amendment.
Howard Williams
Morganton
You can see why it made me angry. When I get angry I like to get out my poison pen and put people who are being hateful and ignorant in their place. So below you can find how I spent my lunch break today. I’m sure I won’t change this person’s mind, however I know I can’t if I don’t try.
First, I have to say I’m not sure I have EVER read such a hateful, bigoted, homophobic, racist piece ever published in a newspaper with the author’s name attached. I suppose a level of kudos is in order to you, Mr. Williams, for having the intestinal fortitude to post something of this nature with your name and city of residence, that the entire world has the potential to see.
For your first point, homosexuality is not a choice. Did you choose to be straight? (And I apologize for assuming you’re straight if that is not the case. As we have come to know sometimes the biggest homophobes are hiding their own sexuality [see: Ted Haggard, Larry Craig, Kathryn Lehman, etc.]). I know I didn’t choose to be straight anymore than I chose to be female or white. All things that happened biologically. If homosexuality is a choice, than why do hundreds of animal species exhibit it, many who do not have the cognitive abilities to make choices in the way humans can? And for their purposes, when reproducing is often key (something that is not the end all, be all for humans) why would those in the animal kingdom choose to be gay? Newsflash: They don’t.
I am no Biblical scholar, however I do know enough about the Bible to know there are many aspects of it that are cherry-picked. Including passages about polygamy, killing adulterers, not eating pork or shellfish, calling menstruating women unclean, saying women should cover their heads in church, etc. If you are a strict follower of the Bible, then I must come to the conclusion that you follow ALL of what is in there, right? Not just using select passages to cover up your own intolerance. I also would imagine, since you want to use your religion as basis to add to the constitution, that you would like these issues addressed in there as well, right?
I don’t have access to The News Herald in print, so can’t speak to the editorial you reference, as it is not online. However, I would guess that it was an editorial done by the editorial board at The Winston-Salem Journal, and not by just one individual (hence why there is no name). There is a Freedom of Press in our country, so just as the News Herald has every right to publish your hateful rhetoric, they also have the right to publish editorials and articles that may not be in accordance to your views.When the United States declared its independence from British control, Thomas Jefferson wrote, “All men are created equal.” He didn’t preface is by saying “white men” or “straight men” or “rich men”, etc. He said ALL men. That helped with the framework of our constitution, giving rights to protect all men, and when those rights have been put into question we have the ability to amend it (see: The 13th Amendment, 14th Amendment and 19th Amendment).
Comparing gays to “drunkards, gamblers and thieves,” whose behaviors are all illegal is disgusting and inaccurate. Gay people are breaking no laws, whether you want them to have marriage rights or not. Having a different sexual orientation than you does not pose a threat on your life. And once again, it is not a choice. Also, I’m not sure what era your schooling occurred, but referring to black people or African Americans as “the blacks” is not politically correct. It is offensive, and quite honestly borderline racist.
You say they (gay people) “do not have the right to take taxpayer money to support their sin.” Newsflash, I bet a lot of them already do! That’s right! Gay people go to college and are eligible for federal grants and loans. Gay people get old and collect Social Security. Gay people buy houses and get mortgage tax breaks. Gay people have kids (yes, that does happen) and can deduct them on their taxes. Gays can now serve openly in the military, being able to receive military benefits and housing (things tax dollars go to). The list goes on. If you have a problem with gay people taking “taxpayer money to support their sin” then I suggest you move elsewhere. You do not have to self-identify with your sexual orientation to receive these kinds of benefits. It is true that by marrying they would receive more tax benefits, however, I, unlike you, do not see that as a bad thing at all.The United States is full of sin (adultery, murder, rape, incest, theft, etc.) yet we’ve managed to survive as a Union for hundreds of years. You think letting gay people marry would end that? I guess I have overlooked their obvious super power capabilities.
Once again equating people who steal and drink too much to gays is disgusting and insulting. Letting someone who is intoxicated drive your vehicle and having your child be taught by a gay teacher are too completely separate things and it is mind-boggling to compare the two. I’m not sure if you have children or not, but I bet at some point in their lives they will be taught by someone who is gay and you, and your child, will probably never know! And yes, not wanting your child taught by a gay individual is called discrimination (it would be like not wanting your child to be taught by someone of a different race, religion, or sex…actually religion is a choice though, whereas the others are not, but I digress). Good thing for you, you can home-school your children with all of your own “values.”
You are wrong in your assessment of the United States Constitution. The Constitution does give citizens the freedom of religion. Which means you have the right to practice any religion you want or no religion at all and not be persecuted for it. It does not mean the government has the right to persecute a certain population because of religious teachings. Also, not all Christians (or Catholic and Protestants) believe being gay is a sin. Many religions, and many Christian denominations, welcome gay people into their churches. Episcopalians allow gays to serve openly in the church. Please do not lump all Christians (or all religions) into your backwards beliefs. My core values I have taken from Christianity are love, tolerance and acceptance. Three things you certainly are not preaching with this letter.
You are welcome to pray for whomever you want (in fact I will pray for you and your intolerance). I do agree with you on the fact that gay people should not be made fun of or bullied. No one should be targeted or ridiculed for being different. However, you also obviously don’t “respect” gay people. Vilifying an entire group of people with a public editorial is not showing respect. Saying that they’re going to Hell is not showing respect.Comparing them to “drunkards” and “thieves” is not showing respect.
Promoting laws that allow gays the same rights as straights is protecting the Constitution. I don’t want laws made based on some wacko religion I don’t believe in. I also believe our Founding Fathers when they say “All men are created equal.”
Lastly, it is clear you don’t understand what this Amendment actually does. Gay marriage is illegal in North Carolina. This ban doesn’t change that. Gay couples will not be able to marry today or May 9th regardless of the outcome of this amendment. What this amendment DOES do is write into our Constitution that the only legal recognized domestic union is marriage between a man and a woman. Ending domestic partnerships and civil unions for straight couples. It would make it difficult for domestic violence protections (as seen in Ohio) because how can you prove domestic violence if your boyfriend is abusing you, if the only recognized (by the law) domestic union is marriage (the solution to the problem in Ohio? Basically telling women that in order to receive domestic violence protections they had to marry their abuser…classy). Children who come from unmarried parents could see their medical benefits stripped as it would limit rights to unmarried parents. The consequences go on and on and on, and I’m note even getting into the potential economic impact (a huge number of CEOs with businesses in the state have come out vocally against this amendment) If you think this is really only about gay marriage then you are simply being obtuse.
There was another marriage amendment on the North Carolina constitution ratified in 1875 banning interracial marriage. It wasn’t overturned until 1971 (and was only overturned because we adopted a new constitution). Back in the 1800s people in the South were saying things oddly similar to what you’re saying now, that being African American was a sin and we had the right to discriminate against them. This stance turned out to be on the wrong side of history. Let us not add to our already spotty past with even more intolerance.
Bottom line, you can be against gay marriage for religious beliefs and STILL find plenty of reasons to VOTE AGAINST this amendment which will affect MILLIONS of North Carolinians whether they are gay or not.
Game. Set. Match.
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An Open Letter to the North Carolina Legislature:
Before I get into the nitty gritty, I just want to get something off my chest. I love North Carolina. Truly I do. It took me a long time to get there, in part because moving to a new town when you’re 10 is hard and I didn’t want to allow myself to love this new place. But I do. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, and I have found that to be almost painfully true as someone who is no longer a resident of North Carolina. I find myself often longing for the cool mountain breezes, ice-cold creeks, sweet tea, and southern hospitality. I wear a pendant of the state around my neck, publicly displaying where my heart lies, and that while Washington, D.C. might be my home right now, it’ll never actually be home.
Yes. I don’t live in North Carolina anymore. I left for “greener pastures” so to speak. I come from an area that has some of the highest unemployment in the country and was just listed as the fifth most miserable metro area in the country. I needed to get out, and D.C. presented fantastic opportunities for a twenty-something girl, both professionally and personally. That being said, I’ve always thought North Carolina would someday become my “forever home.” While I’ve grown to love my new city, I’m not sure it has the staying power in my heart North Carolina has. I’m not sure it’s where I want to build a life with a partner and maybe, someday, have a few children.
You see, North Carolina has so much potential. When my parents moved my sister and me to the state it was due, in part, to an article listing our small town as one of the best places in the country to raise a family. Things weren’t always easy (and I do wonder what metrics they used to make that determination), but I wouldn’t trade that move for anything. North Carolina proved itself to be a fantastic place to raise a family, and the experiences I was able to take advantage of are incredible and the envy of some of my new D.C. friends. It is because of how great my childhood and adolescence were that makes me think about moving back to the state at some point.
However, my views and thoughts about moving back have changed significantly in the past few months. My heart breaks to see what you legislators are doing to my great state. It seems a day doesn’t pass without me reading an article about another horrid piece of legislation you’re trying to pass. You are letting your own personal ideological agendas get in the way for what is best for your constituents.
Take H.J.R. 494, for example. This resolution would establish a state religion in North Carolina. I think we all know what religion that implies. What a slap in the face to hundreds of thousands of people who reside within North Carolina’s borders but do not identify as Christian. What a slap in the fact to the people, like me, who would like to eventually move back (and there are more than a few of us young’uns who’d like to do so) who don’t identify as Christian. What a slap in the face to companies, who don’t discriminate based on religion in their hiring practices, who would like to set up shop in your state. Now, I know what you’ll say. You’ll say that this bill isn’t discriminatory and all of that nonsense. I’m not stupid. Establishing Christianity as the religion of North Carolina is letting all of us non-Christians know exactly what you think of us. You may not “actively” discriminate against those who have different views of God than yours, but you are damn well doing it passive aggressively.
We could also look at the Racial Justice Act and how you all want to repeal it. Yes. You want to repeal a piece of legislation that was passed in order to protect defendants from racial bias during their trials. Something which has happened in the past and the Racial Justice Act has helped to right those wrongs. Michigan State University College of Law did a study that helped prompt this act, in which they showed racial bias being used in determining juries. Now, I’d like to believe race doesn’t play a factor in anything anymore. But I’m not naïve, and I know it does and sadly probably will in some capacity for the rest of my life. It’s really discouraging we need laws like these on the books, but studies have shown time and time again that this issue is a real issue. Repealing this is a slap in the face for not only all those who are not Caucasian but for anyone who wants to see our criminal justice system as fair and as efficient as possible.
Or we could look at HB 217, which would allow youth as young as 13 to enter into the adult criminal justice system and remove judicial oversight. If this bill were to pass, it would give prosecutors complete discretion over the future of NC children (and yes, a 13-year-old is still considered a child) and strip juvenile court judges’ of their decision making power, which is the only neutral and unbiased decision maker in transfer cases. Instead you could wind up with a juvenile offender, who desperately needs rehabilitation in a safe environment instead of incarceration, in an adult prison, which has actually been shown to increase the risk of recidivism, especially among young offenders. A recent exposé on Rock Center with Brian Williams delved into this issue. One consequence of this (out of the many) is the issue that a child in an adult correctional facility is not safe with adult inmates and is more likely to be put in solitary confinement. This is something that is emotionally and psychologically traumatic, and resulted in the child featured on Rock Center committing suicide. Is that what you all want? A bunch of children being put through something so psychologically damaging that they feel their only way out is to take their own lives. Outrageous.
We could also talk about the Dorothea Dix campus. That was a royal cluster, wasn’t it? It must have really confused the business community (the ones who you say you have their backs). How are we supposed to attract new businesses to our state if you can just tear up leases because you don’t agree with the people who came before you who put them into place? That has got to be all sorts of comforting to business leaders.
I could bring up the proposed Medicaid overhaul, charter schools no longer required to have licensed teachers, or the ridiculous IDs with the “fuchsia” (apparently that is distinctly different from pink, according to the McCrory administration) bars on them for “illegal immigrants” (your words, not mine). Or, not legislatively, the initial decision to hang the Confederate flag in the Capitol. That was a real classy move.
The damage you’re inflicting right now will take years upon years to recover from. I can’t even begin to imagine how hard it’ll be to overturn the nonsense you’re proposing when we actually have some people in Raleigh who are putting the citizens of the state first.
North Carolina is quickly becoming a national laughing stock, on par with some of the more, shall we say “backwards” states in our union. Friends in D.C. often greet me with, “What the Hell is going on down in your home state?” I’m getting awfully tired of trying to defend the state as a whole with trying to write those in the legislature in Raleigh off as ideologues. It is getting harder and harder to do so.
In this “race to the bottom” my only hope is your utter disregard for what is good and right in the state helps bring people together to voice their outrage over what you’re doing. So when the time comes we’re mobilized to take our state back and out of the hands of the likes of all of you.
I know I’ll be ready.
Sincerely,
Jamison Doran
